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AFFIRMING MINISTRIES PROGRAM

The Affirming Ministries Program is a network of United Church congregations and ministries that declare themselves to be fully inclusive of people of all sexual orientations and gender identities. Before declaring themselves to be Affirming, local congregations, colleges, church courts, and other ministries study issues of sexual orientation and identity; make a statement of welcome; and commit themselves to work for justice and inclusion within their congregation, the wider church, and their community. The program was launched in 1992.  The United Church officially endorsed the program in 2000 and encouraged its ministries to participate.

To open our new 95 page resource Open Hearts:  Resources for Affirming Ministries in The United Church of Canada   click here.  (Note in its electronic format you can navigate through the table of contents and preset bookmarks)

This page includes two excerpts from our Affirming Ministries Kit:

  • The Table of Contents (to see the many pieces within our resource)
  • The requirements to declare your ministry an Affirming Ministry (the most frequently asked question) - this is also available in an adobe pdf file by clicking here.

Please check out the web sites for various Affirming Ministries from the links on our Affirming Ministry List page.

If looking for ideas for opening or continuing discussion -Look at information about the great resource Breaking Barriers in the Church.

 

 

Requirements to become an Affirming Ministry (for pdf file click here)

In order to become an Affirming Ministry, your ministry (congregation, presbytery, conference, educational institution, outreach ministry, chaplaincy, retreat centre) must go through an educational process that reflects on what it means to be inclusive and evaluates your ministry’s openness to the ongoing work of being intentional about how it both welcomes and includes others within the life and work of your ministry. We hope that you will look at a variety of areas that may be barriers to those coming to your community, agism, sexism, racism, ablism, classism and in particular to the Affirming Ministry the issues of sexual orientation and gender identity. The advice we have received from many Affirming Ministries is that this discussion must include as many groups as possible.


When the ministry feels that it is ready to make a public declaration of its work to be inclusive there are several actions to be taken by your ministry as outlined within our Open Hearts kit:
 

A.  A Vision Statement concerning the inclusion of bisexuals, transgender individuals, lesbians and gay men in the life and work of the Ministry.

Guidelines for writing your statement are listed in the kit on the Affirm United web site.  It is a useful process for your Ministry to write its own statement reflecting the particular community you are a part of, the gifts and commitments you bring to the church and world.  Your statement might include inclusivity in a variety of areas (class, race, sex, age, ability).  A requirement of the statement is that it should specifically include the full participation of gay men, bisexuals, lesbians and transgender individuals in the life of the Ministry.

This Vision Statement (or revised mission statement) is often agreed upon within the board and taken to a congregational meeting to be voted on by all members of the congregation. However, it should be sent to the coordinators of the Affirming Ministry Program first so that it can be preapproved.

B.   A continuing plan of action for the Ministry
      
This might include:

This might include:

  • Ongoing work of your committee to reflect on what areas of inclusion can be further worked on.
    • Cooperation between this committee and other groups to continue the education with new members.
  • ongoing educational events for your Ministry, presbytery, community or other ministries,
  • joint worship service with a Chapter of AFFIRM UNITED or other lgbt religious groups in your area,
  • exploring issues of mission and ministry with lesbians, bisexuals, transgender individuals and gay men who live in your community,
  • developing workshops for other ministries within your Presbytery and Conference
  • getting involved with the local AIDS Committee or hospice

     

C.   A commitment to the Affirming Ministry Program nationally.

You will need to contact the Affirming Ministry coordinator/s via email.

You will need to:

  • provide a contact name (preferably with e-mail) to be added to our network list.  This contact would receive information and report annually the ongoing work of your Ministry. They also may participate in ongoing discussions between Affirming Ministries.

  • give an annual financial contribution to Affirm United/S’affirmer Ensemble .  There is an annual institutional membership fee of $100 to assist in communications, and providing resources for the national program.  We recognize that some Ministries will be able to contribute more and others less.  We ask that you notify our membership coordinator if you are unable to contribute in any given year with a short explanation of circumstances that prevents a contribution.

      There is also an expectation that a separate free will offering will be collected at the time of the service of celebration. 

You will be added to the mailing list for the Newsletter Consensus produced approximately four times per year by Affirm United/S’affirmer Ensemble.  You are also encouraged to send members to Affirm United/S’affirmer Ensemble's Annual Conference and General Meeting each summer.

D.  An Inclusive Marriage Policy (for Affirming Ministries that offer marriage services)

A Marriage Policy in which couples of all gender combinations are treated equally.  This requirement was added by the actions of the Affirm United/S’affirmer Ensemble Council in February 07.

Once you receive approval of your Vision Statement and Plan of Action from the Affirming Ministry Program Coordinator/s and you have become members of Affirm United/S’affirmer Ensemble, we expect you to hold a public service of celebration.  It is at this service that you would receive a certificate from Affirm United/S’affirmer Ensemble to mark this step within your process and at this point you join the growing list of Affirming Ministries throughout Canada. 

If you have any other further questions – please contact Anne Hebb

Open Hearts
The following resource was created by Alyson C. Huntley in conjunction with the Affirming Ministries Program Coordinators.  

Contents

Introduction........................................................ 1

The Purpose of This Resource.................................... 2

How This Resource Is Organized................................ 2

About Language  ...................................................... 3

 

Part 1: Affirming Ministries  ............................ 6

Affirm United and the Affirming Ministry Program .......... 6

Criteria for Being an Affirming Ministry ......................... 8

Signs of an Affirming Ministry ..................................... 9

We’re Already Welcoming, So Why Become Affirming?.11

How to Become an Affirming Ministry ..........................15

Sample Affirming Vision Statements from Affirming

Ministries ................................................................ 18

We’re Affirming, So Now What? Program and Action I

Ideas for Affirming Ministries....................................... 21

FAQs about Affirming Ministries ................................. 25

The United Church of Canada and Issues of Gender

Diversity and Sexual Orientation.................................. 28
 

Part 2: Education, Discernment, and

Action Planning for Affirming Ministries...... 30

Openings and Closings .............................................. 30

Affirming Ministries: The Basics .................................. 32

Storytelling Circles...................................................... 34

The Bible and Issues of Sexual Orientation and Gender

Identity....................................................................... 36

Activity Sheet: Bible Passages and Daily Living............. 39

Handout: Instructions for Small Groups ........................ 42

What Would It Mean for Our Ministry to Be Affirming? ... 43

Handout: Case Studies for Small Groups ..................... 45

Discerning Visions, Hopes, and Possibilities for an

Affirming Ministry........................................................ 48

Developing an Affirming Vision Statement ..................... 50

A Five-Step Process for Developing an Action Plan ....... 52

Explorations for Youth ................................................ 55

Explorations for Children............................................. 58

More Ideas for Learning and Reflection ........................ 61

Strategies for Addressing Opposition, Fear, or Concern. 63

 

Part 3: Resources for Affirming Ministries.. 66

How to Obtain Resources........................................... 66

General Print Resources ............................................ 66

United Church of Canada LGBT Resources .................. 68

LGBT Youth .............................................................. 69

Children..................................................................... 70

Popular Films on Sexual Orientation and Gender

Identity...................................................................... 71

Documentaries on LGBT/Gender Identity  Issues.......... 72

Trans Issues ............................................................ 74

Links to Organizations .............................................. 75

United Church Resources on Aboriginal Peoples and
Indian Residential Schools  ....................................... 77

United Church Resources on Antiracism, Racism, and
Cultural Identity........................................................ 77

Hymns for Affirming Ministries: Music That Celebrates

 Diversity. ............................................................... 79

 

     
 
     

 

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